Thursday, July 06, 2006

Mom, a motivator for Life


Its only yesterday that my mom saw this blog that I am writing, and like most of my readers she liked it too. I saw the sparkle glitter in her eyes when she was searching for spelling errors all around my blog. Mom's are always like that, you know. They generally do things which always takes us far beyond our present experience. They are always there to tell what's wrong. Weather or not they tell us what's right, they tell us what's wrong.

People don't like others finding fault at them. That's their nature. They are not ready to take suggestions from anybody. But i personally feel knowing the wrong thing is more important than doing what is right. When you know something is right, its more of a cyclic process in you. There is no question of hindrance when you know something is right. All that you have to do is keep repeating the same thing again and again. Of course when time changes the way you do it will be different. For example, when you know you are driving you car well. It needs no attaintain. It just happens in you. There is no notice to it. You will be fine with driving, all that happens is when you get a bigger car or a lemousine you would have to drive differently and that would just be a cake walk for you.

But, when you know you are not driving your car well, that NEEDS NOTICE, isn't it so? Can you imagine what are the possible actions that can occur if you don't drive your car well.? It needs more attintion, isn't it so? Your mom never wants to see you in such situation where you cannot even get up. That's the worse thing that could happen to you.

The reason why you reject this suggestion given by your mom or anybody is because you take that suggestion as a FAILURE. Because when you see suggestions are given only when something is not perfect. Now i want you to understand if by any chance you take things as failure right, there is no way you can improvise on it. Failure will always lie a failure , if you consider it so.

For you to ignite your life. Live life better you must have to take failures as feedback.

That's right, THERE ARE NO FAILURES, ONLY FEEDBACK. When you take the suggestion this way. You will develop a higher possibility in life.

And the best person i know who can improvise your life is your mom. She knows you so deep that you were drowned inside her once, remember? Anyway that was long time ago. From now, you would understand when a suggestion is on you it would motivate you. And the first person who would help you get motivated will be your loving mom.

I love my mom, so does everybody

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Tuesday, July 04, 2006

Expose Your Limitations

Almost all of us have been limited to something in life. Now, I don't wish that you should have some limitation in you that will stop you from doing something. All that I mean to say is that we are limited in some way or the other, all of us. Either by body, mind or something else. But there are a lot of people in this world who finds that some limitation in them is stopping the stability or growth in them. Limitations can be Fear (Phobia), procrastination, time management.

Now, everybody wants to get out of his or her limitations but nobody wants to tell it out. There is always a possibility for you to get out of your limitations. So when you want this possibility to become a reality the first and foremost thing that you should do is to see everything the way it is, right? When you are least willing to recognize your limitations how is that you can get over it? If you are hiding your limitations, where is the question of liberation? Where is the possibility? You have destroyed it completely, isn't it so?

Lets imagine that you are chained right now and if freedom has to come someday, the first and foremost thing to see is that you're chained. If you are refusing to see that you are chained the question of liberation never arises.

What will happen when you know you are chained? The first thing what would happen when you know you are chained is pain, there will be suffering, there will be struggle, and there will be confusion. Now old memories of yours will blink and tell you " I was better off before ". This is the way of your mind.

So, as part of the survival technique, memory has the way of erasing certain unpleasant things and making the past always more pleasant than what's there right now. This will happen in you. But in order for you to get over it, you have to MOVE. Do not live with your limitations, EXPOSE them, because when you expose there would be all this pain, struggle, suffering. But this will not last long. Till now your limitations was like a search for water, and when you EXPOSE it its like adding salt into your mouth. When your thirsty and salt is added, you will search for water more rigorously. So in no time your limitations are out. And believe me life without limitations are amazing, it's unbound. So if you have a limitation, its time you EXPOSE.

Know the BLIZZ of being unbound.

Monday, July 03, 2006

You are engineered to be SUCCESSFUL

For those of you who think success is not your piece of bread, What makes you think so that you are not successful. Or what makes you think that you can hardly be successful in life?? Do you know that "YOU" are engineered to be successful.

Even before your birth could happen you are designed to be successful. You know, you were part of about 20 million sperms that could enter your mothers body. Do you know what kind of struggle or how much of stretch you had, to be born in this world. For you to be born in this world YOU as a part of a male body had to swim continuously against fluids for 48 long hours. That's right swimming against the current, gravity too.

What are the qualities that you could have had for such a thing to happen?

Focus
Optimism
Killer Instinct
Speed
Perseverance
Energetic


Now what has happened to all this??

For those of you who think you are procrastinating. Do you think you could have born in this world by even procrastinating for even a second?
For those who think you are lazy. Understand that with this quality then, you could have never be born in this world.
For those who have no idea what you are going to do in life. Without focus as to where you want to go, you could have never reached the ovary to be born.

And how would you feel when somebody dies for you to survive. Please think now what kind of life you would lead when somebody dies for you to live. It's like somebody sacrificing their life for you.

Now do you know what happened to the rest 20 million sperms which swam along with you? THEY DIED. They died because if it had got first you would not have survived. Who are these other 20 million sperms?? Your own brothers and sisters right?? Each sperm their had a possibility for a living. They had equal possibility for living. What's the kind of life you would lead when not one, not two when 20 million people have died for you. That's right, 20 million people have died for you to survive. Not to forget these 20 million people are no one but your own brother's and sister's.

When people come and tell me that their life is BAD, things are not happening for them. I am hurt. I am terribly hurt because when i know what it takes to be born. And when i know the qualities you had before being born. I am totally hurt. I am totally hurt for the kind of life you are living now.

Wouldn't you lead life like a champion, instead of a loser? Of you still lie as a loser their is no reason for the 20 million to die. This is the time you have to understand that you are born in this world to win. That's right, you are BORN TO WIN.

Lead life like a champion

If incase somebody here thinks that i have done something wrong by posting this. I AM SORRY. If you think I have hurt your feelings in some way. I AM SORRY. But the basic reason why i did this is for a change that should happen in you. I wrote this because i want everybody to lead life like a champion.